Tuesday, April 22, 2008

On the Streets

I always asked him to take me around if he was free. He knows all the places that I go to esp. work related. When I was new to Ahmedabad, and I had to go the Ahmedabad Municipal Corporation (AMC) for the first time alone, I had asked him. When my ex-colleague Amit and I had to visit the Urban Health Center we used to ask him to escort us. I remember Amit wanted me to taste the 'maska bun' near the CEPT campus, which indeed turned out to be excellent and reminded me of the 'maska bun' back home at Cafe Good Luck at Good Luck Chowk on F.C Road....hmmm... But that apart. I remember we treated him then. He was our rickshaw driver - Jitu Bhai!

A zillion things that can happen while you are traveling, but seriously, have you ever been treated by a rickshaw driver? Yeah, that is what Jitu Bhai did the other day. After a long time, I had to visit the NGO, and all I remembered was the location - Fatepura, nothing more. I was at my wits end trying to remember more. Thankfully, for me, Jitu Bhai was in his rickshaw outside the campus. He knew the place very well and undoubtedly took me to the place safely. After about an hour, when I was returning, I stopped to have pakoda's at one of the famous places. And as usual offered him some too. Initial protests gave way to acceptance after persistent pleading. And then suddenly he says "Madam aap chai pioge?". That actually made me say "...huh?". He repeated his question and added "campus ke paas bohut achi chai milti hai". And after considering for a while I conceded to his wishes. Not that I am a chai lover, in fact my friends will second me when I say I hardly ever have tea. But this was different. I knew he would treat me and I wanted to respect that. Respecting other people is important not just to tell them that they are important but more so to tell them that you respect them - as whoever they are. And I knew that treating me with chai was his own little way of giving me back and I could not overlook that. For years now I believed in the principle of 'Dignity of Labour' and I had to reciprocate back in some way.

He did not let me get down from the rickshaw - served me hot sweet 'adrakwali special' chai which i am sure he would not have had otherwise and we left after having chai. On the streets of Ahmedabad, Jitu Bhai's gesture had touched me deep inside. When I walked through the gates of my room - I smiled; truely!

9 comments:

Adu Chips said...

Heyy, I had dropped in to know the person who wrote a comment on my blog. And wow I am really thankful I did. You have an interesting blog and I like your way of writing... marathi madhye sangaycha jhaala tar vaachakala khilvun thevnyachi kshamata ahe!!
I appreciate your thoughts on 'Dignity of Labour' and support it thoroughly.. this post brought so many memories to me about so many people. Thanks for that. And keep blogging....... and visiting my blog :-P !!
Aditi.

k said...

hey shilpa... you style of writing as aditi says is really good! I am no expert but your structure conveys the exact meaning and feeling.

lifes little things eh, just like the little cells in our body which expertly work for our functioning... and little things in life... things that really move mountains... :)
keep writing sakshi..

Adu Chips said...

Yeah little things in life.... Kedar, you too wrote about that in your blog a few days ago!!

Shilpa Ramesh Maiya said...

kedar and aditi
thanks a ton for leaving a message :)
@ aditi
i think you are praising me a bit too muvh there. Thanks anyways :). and Lady if you wanna get even more nostalgic i suggest you read my cutting chai...bt then dont blame me if it reminds you of Pune ok...btw...Vaidya still due ;)
and yes, little pleasures; oh they mean a lot sometimes....

Chaitali... said...
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Chaitali... said...

hey shil! as always ur writing portrays ur thoughts lucidly!..the whole incidence actually played in front of my eyes as i read through..
keep up the good writing :)

Shilpa Ramesh Maiya said...

thanks chai! :)

Unknown said...

This post is my favorite one!! Whenever i think of your blog, this story is what comes to my mind :) I love the way you write but I respect you even more for the way you think!!

Shilpa Ramesh Maiya said...

@ ranjini
I didnt know you left me a message here....
Thanks a ton for the message.